Solving the “Stay or Go” Dilemma in Love or Career Through Soul-Led Truth

Clarity without urgency. Decisions without regret.

When something feels unfinished but forcing a decision feels wrong.

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This experience was created for women navigating the “stay or go” question in love, career, or life, without wanting to rush, override their body, or make another decision they’ll have to undo later.

You don’t need another opinion. You need coherence.

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THE PROBLEM

Why clarity feels so hard right now

  • You’ve outgrown something but leaving feels premature or overwhelming.
  • Staying feels heavy but walking away feels destabilizing.
  • Your mind keeps looping.
  • Everyone has an opinion.
  • And rushing the decision feels just as wrong as avoiding it.

Most women aren’t confused —
their system is overloaded.

This isn’t a mindset issue.
It’s a coherence issue.

THE REFRAME

You don’t need to decide faster. You need clarity you can trust.

The 5 Completion Codes helps you distinguish between:

  • true completion
  • nervous system overwhelm
  • emotional activation
  • inherited identity patterns.

So clarity emerges without burning your life down

WHAT THIS IS / ISN’T

What This Is

  • A grounded, soul-led framework

  • A way to stabilize your system before choosing

  • Discernment that includes body, emotions, beliefs, and intuition

  • Support for life, love, and career transitions

What This Is Not

  • A “rip the band-aid off” approach

  • A mindset hack

  • A push to leave or stay

  • Therapy or crisis intervention

 

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IN THEIR WORDS

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The Five Completion Codes is not just a course- it is a lived, embodied transmission. What she offers goes far beyond information or even insight; it’s deep wisdom that you can feel moving through your body, mind, and soul as you engage with it. As I watched her videos, I felt a genuine emotional and spiritual upgrade- like being deeply calibrated back into my own truth. Erica has a rare ability to guide people into soul-led living with clarity, precision, and profound care. You can feel how plugged in and attuned she is, not just to the work, but to our human experience itself. One of the most impactful pieces for me was Code 5, which brings you back into emotional neutrality in such a grounded, honoring way. It doesn’t bypass or dismiss anything- it helps you listen to your field, find certainty within yourself, and make decisions that are clean, aligned, and life-elevating. The kind of clarity where a “yes” is a full-bodied yes, and a “no” is equally sovereign.- Dr. Maria DeFranco

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The Capacity Check gave me clarity as to why I often shutdown and feel stuck when it comes to making big decisions. I now understand I have been in a state of freeze, which has prevented me from having the capacity to make decisions and feel expansive in my business. - Kayla Ashworth, Owner of Density Training & Nutrition

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Wow! Code 4 struck at the heart of it for me. My life was one giant subconscious contract that left no time for my own growth. This was an eye-opener. It was a safe place to unpack, assess, and become Myself in full inner peace. - Christine M. (Houston, TX)

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Your questions and points in the reflection prompts are so salient and impactful. Reading through it and doing the questions made me feel exposed but in a growth way, not a guilt way. Eight weeks ago would have been different. A sign our doula experience is making amazing progress. - Transformation Doula Client

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This work is a gift. I truly believe it has the power to elevate lives and support people in coming home to themselves. I’m deeply grateful Erica created and shared it. I recommend this to anyone wanting to live a more fulfilling life!- Mae Dee

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I agree with Erica when she mentioned in Code 2, The Somatic Compass, that our bodies are trying to communicate with us whether a person, situation or place make us feel Expansive or Constricted. Personally, in 2013, I was working at a well known Marketing Company after I left a well known Uniform Company job, due to high stress. For years, my brain tried to rationalize that I could just switch companies, and push through, since the salary was enticing. However, after just pushing through, I felt exhausted, drained, strained. I was also trying to conceive, and after a couple years it finally happened, but weeks later I miscarried. That was when I finally knew it was time to pause and listen to my body and realized that God didn’t have those stressful jobs in store for me, and that He was showing me through different ways, one of them was my body not being aligned with how those jobs made me feel. I knew then it was time to make a grounded decision from an empowered place to leave my job. Sure enough within months of leaving my stressful job, I got pregnant. The tools provided with Erica’s Course “Solving the Stay or Go Dilema in Love or Career” are very insightful and helpful! Cecilia- Michigan

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Code #3 The Energetic Charge was so helpful in identifying what’s really going on inside when we meet a life situation that leaves us feeling crippled with indecision. It taught me how to not only identify and name what I’m feeling but also what to do next about it. I really could have benefited from this in my 20’s, and 30’s, and will put it into practice from here on out!- Alicia B. - Houston, TX

WHAT YOU’LL MOVE THROUGH

Each code addresses a different layer of decision-making so clarity becomes embodied, not forced.

The Capacity Check

Stabilize the nervous system before making decisions.

The Somatic Compass

Learn how your body signals expansion or contraction.

The Energetic Charge Check

Distinguish emotional activation from true completion.

The Subconscious Contract

Uncover identity patterns quietly shaping your choices.

The Quantum Truth

Discern truth through coherence, trust, and inner authority.

WHO THIS IS FOR

This experience is for you if…

  • You’re navigating a relationship, career, or identity transition

  • You feel stuck between staying and leaving

  • You don’t want another impulsive pivot

  • You value self-trust over external validation

  • You want clarity without pressure

THE WORK BEHIND THE CODES

Hi, I’m Erica Ann Torres.

I didn’t come to this work because personal development was popular.
I came because success alone wasn’t enough.

For years, I lived inside achievement — building stability, careers, and relationships that made sense on paper. And while much of it worked, something underneath didn’t feel complete.

What I discovered , first through my own health journey, and later through thousands of hours supporting others is this:

Most people aren’t confused about what they want.
They’re overwhelmed in their system when it’s time to choose.

I began my work in mindset coaching, then moved into energy and emotional release when I saw how much lived beneath conscious thought. Eventually, I recognized what was missing for so many high-functioning women: the nervous system’s role in decision-making, self-trust, and timing.

Today, my work integrates nervous system regulation, emotional and energetic processing, subconscious patterning, and spiritual discernment, not to push people into change, but to help them recognize when something has truly completed.

I support women who are successful, self-aware, and capable, yet standing at a threshold in love, career, or identity and want clarity without forcing a decision they’ll later regret.

This work isn’t about leaving faster.
It’s about knowing when and why with certainty you can trust.

 

Your Investment

The 5 Completion Codes

 $27 — Limited-Time Instant Access 

Available for a limited time at $27.

Comparable 1:1 discernment or coaching sessions often range from $250–$500+.

This experience offers a structured, self-guided alternative you can return to anytime.

What This Includes

  • 5 short, focused video trainings
  • Companion PDFs for each Completion Code
  • Practical integration tools & reflection prompts
  • Ongoing access

This experience was intentionally
designed to be

Shorter than a course
Deeper than a workshop
More grounded than advice
Many women spend weeks or months stuck in indecision, seeking outside opinions, or looping internally. This gives you a clear, embodied framework you can return to whenever the “stay or go” question arises.
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A Note on Safety

This experience is designed for situations where you feel physically and emotionally safe enough to reflect and discern.

If you are in an unsafe or harmful situation, please prioritize your safety and seek immediate support before engaging in this work.Â